This poor kid was 24 and had 4 brothers and sisters and barely spoke English! The girls fell in love with their new friend and he was picked on by every other sailor that walked by for having an American girl and 2kids that no one knew of!
Tuesday, July 26, 2011
Pallada
This poor kid was 24 and had 4 brothers and sisters and barely spoke English! The girls fell in love with their new friend and he was picked on by every other sailor that walked by for having an American girl and 2kids that no one knew of!
Summer Time Fun
Monday, July 25, 2011
Family Hike
We took our first family hike last week up Old Woman Mountain. Our housing area is built at the base of the mountain and it is supposedly named for the back half which is falling a about. This was not only our first hike up Old Woman but our first hike since last year when we found out I was pregnant. I was a little concerned that I wouldn't be able to make it to the top however when friends told me about their 3year old climbing it I figured I could do as good as a 3year old. So off we went.
While it was a little steep in some areas my biggest issue was the rocks. I had Caitlyn on my front in the ergo carrier which made it a little difficult to see where I was stepping. The girls however had a blast trying to keep up with Lucy, the dog. This was probably the slowest hike Scott has ever taken. However, we had a great time checking out all of the future berry picking spots and talking with other hikers.
For the most part the trail was very thick with bushes however occasionally there was a clearing that allowed us to get great shots of the town of Kodiak as well as the base and our housing area. The first clearing we came to overlooked the base. We got there just in time to watch the afternoon trainer taking off. The girls loved it.
A girl and her dog
By the time we got almost to the top Alisha and Lucy were pretty wore out but still in good spirits. I thought Alisha would be fussy however attempting to keep up with Lucy kept her paying too much attention to being tired. Bri gave up her attempts at keeping up about half way up and finished the hike in the carrier. I was really impressed with how well they both did for having never really hiked before.WE MADE IT!!!!
I had to get a little proof that I made it to the top. Although I didn't make it as far as I wanted. There is a flag about another mile from where we were and just past that is a mountain top lake. The lake was our original goal however I was so relived to make it to the top that we didn't want to push it. We also figured the lake would make a nice goal for another day.
Berry Pickin
Working on filling our 5 gallon bucket.
Six Weeks Already!!
Friday, June 17, 2011
Introducing . . .
We were able to deliver naturally with just under an hour of actually pushing. I was certain by 4 o'clock they were never going to let me push and started asking Scott to request the C-section because I was done! Thankfully however he put his foot down and told me to relax I would be pushing shortly and we were. Shortly after asking for the section they decided I should be on oxygen I'm not really sure why. Anyone know if it is standard to put women on oxygen that mask was a pain when you try to push!
After she arrived it was wonderful! She scored all 9's on the apgar scale, was eating like a champ just 20 mins after being born and weighed in at 8lbs 4 oz and 20 1/2 inches. Scott snapped a couple of pictures then passed out on the little sofa for a 2min power nap. Earlier in the day I gave in and asked for an epidural so we had to wait for feeling to return to my legs before being moved to our postpartum room. Feeling didn't fully return until the next morning (it was a very strong epidural and not much fun) however with a lot of help from our amazing nurse I was able to shower and get moved to our room for the night. The hospital has a 1-1 ratio for nurses and patients so our nurse was pretty much in our room the whole day and did I mention she was wonderful!
After a very restful night Scott brought the girls over to meet their new sister. They fell in love immediately and I was very surprised at how well they did with her. They were very gentle and didn't push her away when they tired of holding her, they would ask us to take her and wait for someone to get her. Even now they love holding her, I have to watch Bri as she thinks she can pick her up when she cries.
The hospital staff on the postpartum floor was also wonderful, everyone we met was very laid back and professional. We both recalled how in Florida the staff was very strict on feeding every 2 hours and telling us the baby would die if we didn't attempt to feed every 2 hours. However, Providence hospital had the policy that as long as the baby was healthy and you documented when you attempted to feed they didn't pressure you to follow a specific feeding schedule. Caitlyn followed, what our nurse called cluster feedings, she would eat roughly every 3 hours during the day then give me a longer break at night and make up for it in the morning between 5 and 10 when she would "cluster eat" every hour to 2hours.
After a full day of recovery we were discharged to return to Kodiak. We left Anchorage that night in order to catch the ferry. We had tried to catch one later in the week so I would have more time to rest however all of the ferries were already booked up for the the next several weeks due to transfer season. So we loaded up and headed home. Thankfully we had calm seas and a large berthing room so I was able to still mostly stay in bed. We also met a couple of new families that were new to the island. Overall it was an amazing experience and we have an amazing little girl. She has so far been the most laid back and easy going, even more than Alisha and I didn't think that was possible. She is already back up over her birth weight and easily 10lbs now. We have been so blessed with all of our little girls I can't wait for her personality to start shinning through.
Saturday, May 28, 2011
Anchorage Vacation
While exploring we found this wonderful waterfall that rain under the road and the opportunity for some hiking and cooling off in the water, which was VERY cold!!
To end our vacation we treated Jaime to her first King crab dinner. She was then attacked by her crab. However she beat it and from my understanding loved it.
Monday, May 23, 2011
Bri''s Birthday difficulties
We had a small party with close friends the weekend after her birthday. THe kids had a blast dressing up like princesses. B was especially cute in her pink ruffles dress. We had a grill out followed by homemade cupcakes. I thought the cupcakes turned out very well however I did need to work on my decorating. The birthday girl also got several wonderful gifts that she has been throughly enjoying ever since. The biggest gift was really a family surprise as the humane society had called earlier that day and asked if we would be interested in taking a puppy that had been returned. So after all the excitement we spent the night enjoying the newest addition to our family, a white mutt that A named Lucy a couple of weeks later.
Friday, May 20, 2011
VBAC vs. Elective Cesearen: Pros and Cons
The 1995 American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologist (ACOG), which is the leading governing and research body for OB-GYNs recommended "limiting repeat cesarean births to those that were medically necessary. Obstetricians should counsel and encourage women to try to give birth vaginally." It continued to say that vaginal births (after cesarean) "would lead to shorter hospital stays, fewer transfusion, fewer post-partum fevers and a savings of more than four-thousand dollars per birth." It also stated that "not only would this course of action (VBAC) be better for women it would also not cause any greater risk for their babies." They concluded by recommending that "women with 2 or more previous cesareans with no contraindication who want VBAC should not be discouraged from trying for a vaginal birth, that women with large babies should not be automatically exempted from trying a VBAC and that VBACs should not be limited to the largest hospitals."
Between '95 and '98 VBACs were encouraged and done at most hospitals, even the Dr's at our clinic on Kodiak fondly remember doing VBAC on the island. So what changed? Several things, the 2 changes that I find most compelling are the induction rate and societal changes. Prior to '98 little was known about the risk of using induction medication on VBAC patients therefore more VBAC patients were being induced as the use of induction medication also increased. We now know that using induction medication on a VBAC patient increases their risk of uterine rupture. Therefore, dr's willing to attend VBACs today do not consider induction an option until after 6cm dilation and most not even then. Another theory for the change in recommendations is that societal changes in the '90s led to increases in malpractice lawsuits which caused a shift in the recommendations.
The '99 ACOG bulletin withdrawals the recommendation that repeat cesarean section only be done when medically necessary and strongly urges that physicians capable of performing an emergency C-section be "immediately available". Since most hospitals do not have the capability to have round the clock staff they have developed policies that do not allow women to have VBAC's at their hospital. Some smaller hospitals however interpret this recommendation to allow VBAC by having staff on call so that the decision to incision time is 30mins just as they would in the case of a 1st time pregnancy in need of an emergency section. It is my feeling that any hospital that cannot offer emergency surgery to laboring VBAC patients is therefore unable to provide any other form of emergency surgery, as the decision to incision time would also be approximately 30min. The ACOG bulletin also does not provide research supporting their change in policy and since it is my understanding that the uterine rupture rate has not significantly changed it is understandable how people jump to the conclusion that the changes were made not for the benefit of the patient but for the benefit of the Drs. due to increases in malpractice suits. A few of the Drs I have talked to have stated that they feel another shift is coming and they are hopeful that ACOG will once again add in recommendations for allowing multiply cesarean VBACs. For the most recent ACOG recommendation you can visit consensus.nih.gov/2010/vbac.htm
Here is a pros and cons list concerning VBACs:
PROS:
-VBAC is safe (the consent form that must be signed for the Dr and Hospital clearly states that the patient must be made aware that VBAC is safer than elective C-section, no consent form or information form is given stating the risk of elective C-section).
-Elective repeat cesarean poses greater risks to the mother's life and health than does vaginal birth. It poses hazards to the baby as well, especially with succeeding pregnancies and more than one cesarean.
- Most women, including women whose prior cesarean was for lack of progress or who are believed to be carrying a big baby, will birth vaginally if allowed to labor.
CONS:
- While the healed uterine scar is tough it is widely excepted that a form of uterine rupture (symptomatic scar separation) will occur in 1% of VBAC patient that have had 1 prior c-section, it is my understanding that this type of separation occurs most commonly in the first couple hours of labor. Another form of uterine rupture (spontaneous scar separation) is the most common type of rupture and occurs most likely between 36 and 39 weeks, I am not sure at what percent this form of rupture occurs while I have asked several Drs they have not been able to give me an answer other than the 1% mentioned above. Also, while they quote the same percentage of risk they do not ask the patient to take any special precautions such as limiting activities or bed rest, since it is unknown what causes it. Uterine rupture means that the scar will open up enough for the umbilical cord or the baby to pass through the opening or for bleeding to occur (if left unattended or not caught fast enough this may lead to the death of the mother or baby) However, when a c-section is done promptly few babies and even fewer moms will be injured.
-The perinatal mortality rate (deaths around the time of birth) in 29 studies have found that 3 out of 10,000 deaths occur for both VBAC labors and planned cesareans.
Pros and Cons for Elective Cesarean
Pros:
Since there is no labor, there is no chance of symptomatic scar separation, at least not during labor, prelabor cesareans have lower infection and other complication rates than cesareans done in labor.
Cons:
Compared with vaginal birth, c-section substantially increases the risk of infection, injury to other organs, hemorrhage, and anesthesia complications. The complications, in turn, increase the risk of prolonged hospitalization, hysterectomy and maternal death. Repeat c-sections are more technically difficult to perform because of scar tissue. For this reason, injury to other organs is more common, Scar tissue formation can cause chronic pain and bowel problems. Elective cesarean also increases the baby's risk for poor condition at birth, breathing difficulties and jaundice. Each successive cesarean greatly increases the risk of developing placenta previa and/or placenta accreta in subsequent pregnancies. Both of these complications pose life-threatening risks to mother and baby. Cesareans also increase the odds of infertility and ectopic pregnancy, another life-threatening danger, in subsequent pregnancies. Women with multiple prior cesareans have a slightly increased risk of symptomatic scar separation during VBAC.
Closing note: I am not anti-Cesarean. Despite how it sounds I am completely open to allowing the Drs to perform a c-section if it becomes medically necessary. Since I am considered a higher risk I will be under greater supervision and monitoring so that should a c-section need to be done it will be done at the 1st signs of possible danger. However, as I have stated many times in this post all the research agrees that a VBAC is safer than a repeat elective cesarean.
Most of my information has come from the several Drs we have spoken with, Guide to Childbirth by Ina May and The Thinking Woman's Guide to a Better Birth by Henci Goer as well as the NIH website and ACOG VBAC statements.
Sunday, April 17, 2011
Been a while . . .Update
For those wandering why the extra trip, we have decided to attempt a natural birth rather than planning another C-section. The hospital on Kodiak does not allow attempted VBAC due to policies on emergency C-sections so I have to deliver in Anchorage where the facilities are better equipped in the event of an emergency.
S will be following us a week later as the Coast Guard does not allow additional time off, which is why our friend was gracious enough to come stay with me. I can't be in medical housing without a chaperon and yet my husband isn't allowed off. I know lots of things don't make sense about the whole process.
So we are rapidly discovering we are running out of time to get all of our projects completed prior to leaving. We have been working on getting the yard ready for flowers and hopefully some grass. S has been working on getting lines and nets set up for fishing season which starts shortly after we leave. And today we have finally gotten the baby's room set up, somewhat. Not knowing if it will be a boy or girls makes it a little difficult to really decorate however we do have the crib set up with a set of white sheets that I had. We will finish decorating when we get back. Next on the list of things to finish is the garage and I'm having serious doubts as to whether or not we will finish it. So I guess I need to get back to work.
Friday, February 25, 2011
Getting Big!!
Gifts were then opened much to the birthday kids delight! A had been eyeballing the princess bag all day. She mostly go board games as she fell in love with the ones that she got at Christmas.
Monday, January 31, 2011
Rabbit Stew
Sunday, January 23, 2011
Bri Update
The dentist confirmed that the white was partly bone and partly root, the gum is fairly thin in that area so it wouldn't have taken much for either one to show through. She didn't think that the teeth were jammed due to being able to see the roots and the teeth still appeared to be positioned correctly they also didn't feel loose. Also, with B's age she felt everything would heal quickly and correctly without having any problems. We do have to keep an eye out for any possible infection as there isn't a good way to clean it, since we can't brush up there due to disturbing the clot and causing more pain and discomfort for B. We were also warned that the teeth may change color as the bruising continues to heal but they should change back as the bruising clears up. The only concern would be if they didn't change back and she began to act like she was having pain in that area, in which case we would need to go back to check of infection or an abscess. The extent of some of the damage may also be unknown until her permanent teeth begin to come in, in which case she may have some spacing or other issues that would be addressed at that time.
So that about sums it up. Overall, she is acting like herself and eating just fine. The dentist was impressed with how well B took to her messing with the area and thankfully nothing else needs to be done at this time except keeping an eye on it.
I'ma Huntin' Wabbit
Friday, January 21, 2011
Happy Birthday
After breakfast the fun began, the kids were bundled up and a morning of sledding was enjoyed by all. We then had a Doctor appointment and got to hear the newest member's little heartbeat. It was then back to the house for a quick hair cut and we got ready to go on a date. We grabbed a little to eat at a local restaurant then went to the movies. The theatre here only has one screen so the movies are generally several weeks behind from every where else and there is only one showing a night of a particular movie. So they may be showing two movies but one shows at seven and one at nine, it takes a little getting use to because the movie you want to see is never playing on the day and time you want to see it. This time however we got lucky and the movie S wanted to see happen to be playing that night and at the right time.
Since his birthday S found something that he wanted more than a tool chest. Someone happened to be getting rid of a Wii on the message board at work with accessories and games for very cheap. So he asked if they would take a gift instead of cash and they guy agreed. We now have a new Wii game system and a very happy birthday boy.
Happenings
Over the past few weeks we have had several things happen that I've wanted to write about and just haven't found the time or energy to do it. Now I can't remember half of them so real quick the one's I do remember.
We enjoyed a beautiful snow storm for about a week. Followed by several chilly but very sunny days. The girls and my hubby have thoroughly enjoyed sledding and playing in the snow. After the sunny days we've had several days of rain as temps went back up into the high 30's, so now all the pretty powdery snow is slush and ice and NOT much fun to walk, play or drive on. S came home for his lunch break to find the girls begging to go sledding so he went out with them I think he had a pretty good work out. He would walk them up the hill then run back down so that he could catch them at the bottom. Coming back in B got the idea to clear off the railing on the porch steps only after touching the snow it all let loose and avalanched right on top of her head. Thankfully it wasn't much more that a few handfuls however she was not impressed.
Aside from the interesting weather A is just as sassy and "do it myself" as ever. Now B has decided that she too can do everything herself. I had thought a couple of weeks ago that I would attempt to potty train B however after falling in the potty the first morning we soon decided to wait until she got over her trauma and try again. So the other morning she comes to me with diaper and wipes in hand telling me she needs a change when I get the diaper off she ask to sit on the potty. After about 15min playing on the potty she still hadn't gone so I made her get off and we tried potty training again. Only she got things a little backwards. She was fine sitting on the potty singing and playing then would get off walk into the other room and pee pee on the floor. After half a day cleaning up behind her I decided to get things together to try again on Monday when I'm more prepared. I can't believe they will be 2 and 3 this year it seems amazing to me how fast the time goes.
S and I are also keeping busy. This week we will be starting a young adults Sunday school class at our church. Praying it goes well as there aren't' but a few young adults that attend. We have also started a praise band. In December our pianist's work schedule was changed so she was no longer able to attend every other Sunday. So after a few weeks of singing a Capella we got several other musicians together and began playing on the Sunday's the pianist has to work. So far it has worked out great.
We also had a wonderful surprise last week. Wanting to start eating healthy and more natural we were a little concerned with the cost. However, last week S ran into a guy that he'd worked with in Clearwater that was going on a Caribou hunt and offered to bring us one back as well. It was perfect we would get to sample cooking and processing methods without having to pay too much out of pocket. However, with the weather being nasty the last couple of days the flight got cancelled so the guy had to postpone the trip. We did talk to him last night and he was hoping they would get out today and also offered to bring us back some crab. I was thrilled!
So that has been the last few weeks in a nut shell. Oh yeah. We also had our first and supposedly only ultrasound. Everything looked fine and healthy with the new baby (Pics on facebook) and I have an appointment with the Doctor from Anchorage in March. We couldn't determine the sex as the umbilical cord was between the legs. So we are still left wandering on that end hopefully we will get another ultrasound at some point and will be able to tell then.